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Domestic Violence Double Standards: Men Get Shackles, Women Get Chuckles
Our culture in the US is strongly biased in the way it holds individuals accountable for domestic violence. This video focuses on the difference between the way men and women are held accountable.
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Male Victims of Domestic Violence – The Hidden Story
We have only heard half the story about domestic violence and that half is the female victims and male perpetrators. But there is another side to this story. The male victims and female perpetrators. Somehow that side of the story simply doesn’t get told. This short video touches on these issues and opens up the reality of the male side of domestic violence.
RESOURCES
http://batteredmen.com/Journal.htm
FROM THE VIDEO
NISVS – http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/NISVS/
Murray Straus article – http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/V71-Straus_Thirty-Years-Denying-Evidence-PV_10.pdf
NCADV Fact Sheet – http://www.ncadv.org/files/DomesticViolenceFactSheet(National).pdf
original research showing 1.3 million female victims and 834,732 males – https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/181867.pdf
Denise Hines – http://www.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/
Hines – Male Helpseeking – http://www.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/Douglas%20%20Hines%202011%20helpseeking%20experiences%20of%20male%20victims.pdf
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1 in 4 Women Admit to Violence in Relationship
The title is intentionally provocative and meant to poke fun at the ways that research is being used to implicate men as the primary problem of domestic violence. Then again, the title is not that far from the truth. This video will have a look at the underbelly of one research study on domestic violence that created a good deal of headlines. Those headlines? They read over and over again that 1 in 5 men admitted to being violent in relationship. The video will take a look at how they got those numbers and also offer a glimpse of the story that they DIDN’T tell you. That story is that the data used for this study showed clearly that the women admitted to considerably more violence than the men. Have a look.
If you want a more detailed version you can see the article on menaregood that goes into a great deal more detail. http://menaregood.com/wordpress/the-one-sided-narrative-of-domestic-violence/
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Sexual Assault on Campus: A Quiz Show
Join us for a high stakes quiz show about Sexual Assault on campus. Respondents include President Obama and VP Biden. Watch as the White House misinformation is debunked and the truth about Sexual Assaults on campus comes into focus. We are living in an age where stats are grossly inflated in order to push ideologies and myths.
The 1 in 5 myth is just one of many myths that we now live under. Feminists have made a career out of creating myths with catchy phrases and numbers, tied themselves to the railroad tracks in front of the legislators and watched as congress and the media fought to white knight themselves and come to the rescue. All the while huge bureaucracies are erected that have enormous budgets. This has left us with a lop-sided culture that caters to women and girls but refuses to see the pain of men and boys. A great book was written on this titled “Feminist Crusades: Making Myths and Building Bureaucracies.” Excellent book and only 3.99 on kindle http://www.amazon.com/Feminist-Crusades-Frank-S-Zepezauer-ebook/dp/B00646XHKY/
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To see the original White House press conference go here: http://www.whitehouse.gov/photos-and-video/video/2014/01/22/president-and-vice-president-speak-preventing-sexual-assault
To see the RAINN web page go here: http://www.rainn.org/
To see the Clery web page go here: http://clerycenter.org/
I would encourage everyone to go to your local university’s web site and in the search box type in “clery report” or something similar. It can take a little searching in the results and the report may be titled something like “Campus Fire and Safety Report.” once you find the report scroll to near the end and you will find the tables of crimes for that university. Behold! LOW NUMBERS!
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Do Boys Face Childhood Sexual Abuse?
We have heard a message for many years from the media that it is girls who face childhood sexual abuse. However, the research tells a different story. This video talks about this discrepancy.
The site mentioned in the video is http://1in6.org
there is also a site I heard about recently http://www.malesurvivor.org/
For a bit more detail you can see the companion blog post here:
http://menaregood.com/wordpress/boys-raped-more-often-then-girls/
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Tom Golden is the author or three books, Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing, The Way Men Heal, and Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons: UnderStanding the Unique World of Boys. Tom was the creator of the youtube channel Men Are Good and served as the vice chairman of the Maryland Commission for Men’s Health. He has been a therapist in private practice for over 30 years.
