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Psychology of Prejudice Against Men part 2 Maintaining the Prejudice
Tom and Aman continue their discussion about Aman’s dissertation on the Prejudice Against Men. They discuss a small section of the dissertation on the mechanisms to maintain the invisible and powerful prejudice that impacts men. This is critical since the face and structure of this prejudice is difficult to capture and by learning what drives it we are in a better position to be able to call it out when we see it. Toxic masculinity and patriarchy are discussed and labelled as victim blaming distractions from the pain of men and boys.
Link to part one https://youtu.be/O8hZEM0S6hQ
The Thesis
https://www.proquest.com/openview/18ff860071ff793d5240c7040a00d4d9/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=18750&diss=y
Aman’s academia.edu page
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Link to the article Aman mentioned about masculinity and how it is measured. https://menaregood.com/wordpress/misandry-in-psychological-research/
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The Psychology of Prejudice Against Men
The Psychology of Prejudice Against Men is a topic that gets too little attention. Aman Siddiqi has broken the unwritten rules of silence from the misandrist psychological community by taking a close look at the workings of this invisible prejudice and how it impacts men and the psychotherapeutic relationships between therapists and male clients. In his Doctoral Thesis Siddiqi draws on past research on discrimination and prejudice and applies those research driven ideas to what is happening to men today. Importantly he brings to light the concept of “Acceptable Prejudice” which is a prejudice against specific groups that is invisibly endorsed by the culture and shows how it is now men who are carrying the burden of this prejudice. This is a fascinating interview that begins the process of unraveling the web of bias faced in today’s world by boys and men.
The Thesis
https://www.proquest.com/openview/18ff860071ff793d5240c7040a00d4d9/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=18750&diss=y
Aman’s academia.edu page
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Psychology of Prejudice Against Men part 2 Maintaining the Prejudice
Tom and Aman continue their discussion about Aman’s dissertation on the Prejudice Against Men. They discuss a small section of the dissertation on the mechanisms to maintain the invisible and powerful prejudice that impacts men. This is critical since the face and structure of this prejudice is difficult to capture and by learning what drives it we are in a better position to be able to call it out when we see it. Toxic masculinity and patriarchy are discussed and labelled as victim blaming distractions from the pain of men and boys.
Link to part one https://youtu.be/O8hZEM0S6hQ
The Thesis
https://www.proquest.com/openview/18ff860071ff793d5240c7040a00d4d9/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=18750&diss=y
Aman’s academia.edu page
https://independent.academia.edu/AmanSiddiqi
Link to the article Aman mentioned about masculinity and how it is measured. https://menaregood.com/wordpress/misandry-in-psychological-research/
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
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The Way Men Heal
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Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
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Huge Men Are Good Mug
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The Psychology of Prejudice Against Men
The Psychology of Prejudice Against Men is a topic that gets too little attention. Aman Siddiqi has broken the unwritten rules of silence from the misandrist psychological community by taking a close look at the workings of this invisible prejudice and how it impacts men and the psychotherapeutic relationships between therapists and male clients. In his Doctoral Thesis Siddiqi draws on past research on discrimination and prejudice and applies those research driven ideas to what is happening to men today. Importantly he brings to light the concept of “Acceptable Prejudice” which is a prejudice against specific groups that is invisibly endorsed by the culture and shows how it is now men who are carrying the burden of this prejudice. This is a fascinating interview that begins the process of unraveling the web of bias faced in today’s world by boys and men.
The Thesis
https://www.proquest.com/openview/18ff860071ff793d5240c7040a00d4d9/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=18750&diss=y
Aman’s academia.edu page
https://independent.academia.edu/AmanSiddiqi
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The Path of Male Friendships
Tom and Janice discuss the path of male friendships and the many changes over the last hundred and fifty years. They focus on what has recently been making male friendships more difficult and some ideas about what men are doing about it.
The media stresses the need for men to have relationships while simultaneously telling men that they need to be more like women to find relationship success. This sums up the misandrist attitudes that fail to recognize men’s unique ways of relating and the fact that a man’s close friendships are significantly different from a woman.
Stonestreet Article — https://breakpoint.org/most-men-dont-have-real-friends-but-need-them/?_hsmi=196650157
Fascinating Photo Essay — https://www.artofmanliness.com/people/relationships/bosom-buddies-a-photo-history-of-male-affection/
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Shorts – Testosterone
Tom takes a quick look at testosterone and men.
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MenAreGood Shorts – Gaining Status
Boys and girls have different ways to gain status. The landmark research of Ritch Savin-Williams led the way in showing how these differences manifest. Savin Williams placed researchers in boy’s and girl’s cabins for a summer camp and they counted behaviors. He found the fascinating split of the more active masculine paths and the more passive feminine paths. This is not hard to spot today nor is the double standard that pathologizes the masculine and turns a blind eye to the feminine.
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Do Men Deal With Their Feelings
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PLAY! Some ideas about play for Dads and Granddads
Tom has a quick look at some different ideas for dads and granddads about playing with their children and grandchildren. All too often men find themselves with very limited time with their children and finding ways to play with them can make the most of that limited time while being great fun for both father and child.
The Nose Fairy Story
https://youtu.be/hIv57i4yTn4
Trickster Tale, Trickster Eats a Bulb
https://youtu.be/s-bdLEZicYg
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Masculine Identity: The Irony of Identity Politics
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A Conversation with John Barry – Regarding Men #71
Paul, Tom, and Janice talk with Dr John Barry about his male positive work and particularly a study he did on the impact of the idea of toxic masculinity on men and boys.
Twitterhttps://twitter.com/MalePsychology
Male Psychology https://malepsychology.org.uk/
Gamma Bias: Cognitive Distortion https://youtu.be/LHYRYKCIDxk
The Study https://zenodo.org/record/3871217#.XxYDCOd7lPZ
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Part Two – Transmen Max Valerio and Zander Keig Speak about Male Privilege and other topics
In part two Zander and Max discuss male privilege and their perceptions of the default cultural idea of male privilege and what they experienced in their own transitions.
If you missed part one you can see it here https://youtu.be/AnCdk_3YpPI
Max’s book
The Testosterone Files https://www.amazon.com/Testosterone-Files-Hormonal-Social-Transformation/dp/1580051731
Zander’s books
https://www.amazon.com/Zander-Keig/e/B00RUIR95O
Manning Up: Transsexual Men on Finding Brotherhood, Family and Themselves https://www.amazon.com/Manning-Up-Transsexual-Brotherhood-Themselves/dp/149749219X/
Manifest: Transitional Wisdom on Male Privilege https://www.amazon.com/Manifest-Transitional-Wisdom-Male-Privilege/dp/1365276821
Letters For My Brothers: Transitional Wisdom in Retrospect https://www.amazon.com/Letters-My-Brothers-Transitional-Retrospect/dp/0982497318
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A collection of over 80 menaregood videos from the past 10+ years focusing on the Psychologiy of Men.
Tom Golden is the author or three books, Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing, The Way Men Heal, and Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons: UnderStanding the Unique World of Boys. Tom was the creator of the youtube channel Men Are Good and served as the vice chairman of the Maryland Commission for Men’s Health. He has been a therapist in private practice for over 30 years.
