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Four Reasons Men and Boy’s Worlds are Different from Women and Girls
This video has a look at the four things that make the male world very different from the female world. We are erroneously taught that socialization is the main reason for our sex differences but this presentation will give you a very different research driven perspective.
Part One – Tom has a look at the latest research on Testosterone and how it impacts boys and men and creates a totally different world for them.
Part Two – Fueled by Testosterone, boys and men live in a hierarchical world that demands they strive for status. Yes, they can decline participation but that has powerful consequences.
Part Three – Once boys and men are fueled by testosterone and enter into the male hierarchy they are slotted into winners and losers by what scientists are now calling Precarious Manhood. This slotting mechanism creates a very different experience for boys and men much different from the world of women and girls. Yes, women are slotted into rank via their attractiveness but men are slotted into ranks on all their characteristics. Also, the consequences are very different. For women they are simply seen as less attractive but for men the consequence is that are no longer considered to be MEN.
Part Four – Once men and boys are fueled with testosterone, enter the male hierarchy and then are slotted into winners and losers via precarious manhood…they find that they are less likely to get support and understanding than women and girls. The research of Kurt Gray and Tania Reynolds on Moral Typecasting helps us understand that men and boys will be more likely to be seen as “agentic” and this means they are more likely to be ignored when in need. All the while they see women and girls getting the opposite. Now we know why, moral typecasting.
The world of boys and men is significantly different from that of women and girls and yet we live in a culture that devalues masculinity and takes the insane step of telling the boys they need to be more like the girls. Crazy stuff don’t you think?
Testosterone
https://www.princeton.edu/haushofer/publications/Eisenegger_et_al_TiCS_2011.pdf
Vandello
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/24170529_Moral_Typecasting_Divergent_Perceptions_of_Moral_Agents_and_Moral_Patients
Gray – Moral Typecasting
https://static1.squarespace.com/static/52eea0e9e4b06612bb723c25/t/531c6d4be4b089910eb88c3e/1394371915328/moral-typecasting.pdf
Reynolds
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Why Can’t We Hate Men? – Menaregood responds to the Washington Post article
The Washington Post ran an article titled “Why Can’t We Hate Men.” It was authored by Suzanne Walters, the director of Gender Studies at Northeastern University. The article clearly shows that Ms Walters hates men.
Hooray! Finally they admit the truth. They hate men. Now it’s time to defund and dismantle the haters.
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Post article Why Can’t We Hate Men:
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Relationship Aggression: Is it a trap for men?
Our culture focuses on men’s physical aggressiveness and turns a blind eye to the aggressiveness of women. This video takes a look at women’s relational aggression, how it works, how it relates to men’s issues, and importantly what are its connections to feminism.
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Is Feminism a Hate Group?
Most people see feminism as being about equality. They also tend to think of MHRA’s as being haters. Are they right? This video takes a close look at just what a hate group is and how feminism and men’s advocates fit in.
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False Accusations and the denial of men’s emotional pain
The false rape accusations of males take a terrible toll. The man’s emotional pain is ignored while simultaneously he is viewed as a criminal. Much has been done to study and aid the victims of rape but little is done to aid men, young or old, who are falsely accused of rape. This video takes a quick look at what this experience might be like.
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The Truth about Male Suicide
Men are nearly 80% of completed suicides and no one seems to care. The public, mental health professionals, researchers, all of them. This video takes a male friendly look at what is not seen or discussed in the mainstream.
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The Everyday Hatred of Men – Part One, Patriarchy
This is the first in a series that focuses on three misandrist theories, Patriarchy. Hegemonic Masculinity, and Toxic Masculinity. All too often the hatred of men is an accepted cultural practice while the hatred of any other group is strictly forbidden. This video looks into the Patriarchy idea and its hatefulness.
The video mentioned about women’s oppression can be seen here:
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The video about men being on the top can be found here:
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Bones on the Beach: The Misandry Embedded in our Culture and in APA Division 51
This video looks at the ways gynocentrism and misandry are embedded in many aspects of our culture. It specifically looks into the gynocentric and misandrist ways of the American Psychological Association’s Div 51 (the study of men and masculinity) Tom relates his experience with this group and discusses their ejection of an MRA and then his own banning.
Here’s a link to an article on the Division 51 web site. It starts by saying: “Men who perceive bias against men may compensate by discriminating again women, according to new research by Dr. Clara L. Wilkins” Yep, you are in the right place! LMAO Have a look around and see what you can find!
http://division51.net/homepage-slider/when-men-perceive-anti-male-bias/
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The Greatness and Goodness of Men
This video focuses on the goodness and greatness of men. So often we are told the opposite, that there is something wrong with men. This hateful message masquerades as truth via far too many people who are too asleep to honor men’s beauty, utility, goodness and greatness.
A main reason I created this one was as a way to tell boys and young men the good things about being male. Please do share this one with any young boys you might know. They are battered each day with messages that their sex is a problem and to blame for the ills of the world. They need to hear a different message.
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Why are Men so often at the TOP
The standard gynocentric lament about women’s under- representation in top leadership roles is that this is due to discrimination. But there is scant evidence for this default claim. Especially after the last 30 years of legislating advantages for women. This video looks at three factors that have been kept quiet by a female dominated media. Whether it is Field’s Medal winners, international chess champions, or Nobel Prize winners we see the same pattern emerge. Many more men at the top. This video looks into three factors that help explain why men are so often at the top.
Here’s a link to a study on testosterone that goes over things discussed in this video: https://www.princeton.edu/haushofer/publications/Eisenegger_et_al_TiCS_2011.pdf
Here’s the Vandello study on Precarious Manhood: https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/features/men-a0029826.pdf
and a discussion on IQ here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1274952/Men-ARE-brainy-women-says-scientist-Professor-Richard-Lynn.html
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Intro to Men’s Issues
This video goes over the major issues faced by men in the US today. It was created 10 years ago and originally was in 4:3 format and fairly low resolution. I have now brought it up to 16:9 and increased the resolution as much as possible while still keeping the original footage and audio. I have also added an Epilogue on the end that takes a brief look at the carnage left since this video was created.
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Gynocentrism: Compassion and Choice for Men
Gynocentrism 1.0 was a powerful harness that pushed men to provide and protect. It also pushed women to reproduce and care for the young. Both men and women were held in high esteem for their sacrifices as their actions were at times admired and respected. However, with the advent of Gynocentrism 2.0 that is no longer the case. Women’s rigid sex roles have been expanded but men continue to face an archaic societal lack of compassion that has a very negative impact while also being blamed for the problems of the world. This video looks into the ramifications of this on men.
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