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False Accusations and the Denial of Men’s Emotional Pain
I keep hearing that false accusations of rape make it harder on real victims of rape. Really? There may be a kernel of truth in this idea but it completely ignores the trauma and pain…
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The Invisible Blue Taboo — The Burden of Boys and Men
This is what you get when you swallow the blue pill. Most men live under an invisible blue taboo. This powerful and cloaked prohibition discourages men in many ways, one of which is from letting anyone…
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Ladies – How can you get emotionally close to the men you love?
This article is the first in a series of articles geared to help women get closer to the men and boys they love. If you want more info on this topic you can see Tom’s…
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Why is it that men’s grief is so invisible?
For a much more detailed version of these natural paths for men and to see how they do actually heal and deal with their feelings you might want to check out my new and very…
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A Survival Guide for Men in Couples Therapy — Part One
When men enter into couples therapy with their wives or significant female others they will often come into what seems like foreign territory. Things don’t make sense and the language used is not so…